When It’s been a While…
Welcome to another edition of Sarah Babs Uncensored, a column that educates you on how to ignite your sex life and relationship.
Today’s hot topic is on 3 amazing ways to get saddled up. If you are having a bit of trouble getting your groove back when it comes to bedroom skills, you definitely have nothing to worry about. Now that you’re ready to hop back to it, it’s time to refocus that anxious energy onto your own pleasure, exploration, and play.
So, below are 3 tips to get you started…
Seduce, masturbate, repeat
Figuring out what you like and where you like to be touched will make it easier to communicate that to your partner. And the more you know what you like, the more confident you’ll be in the bedroom. So have fun exploring yourself! Wear something that makes you feel sexy. Run a bath, explore new toys, feathers—anything to pamper yourself.
Get some inspiration
Whether it’s porn, erotic short stories, or 5o Shades of Grey, a good visual is always helpful. Look at it as research—trial and error if you will. Observe what gets you turned on and go with it!
Remember, sex is about both of you
Yes, you want to please your partner, but make sure that you’re thinking of yourself too. Most men say that there’s nothing hotter than a woman who is authentically enjoying herself. They’ll also take it as a direct reflection of their own skill in bed, and a little stroke of the ego never hurt anyone. So although you want to wow your partner, let them wow you back.